You've Got A Boyfriend? Guess you have to know these following:

1. GUYS WILL OPEN THEIR MOUTHS IN THEIR OWN TIME. If they are pushed, they will clam up. Worse, they may tell something you don't want to hear. As you get to know each other better, and he feels more comfortable, you will be pleasantly surprised to hear all the sweet things your baby has to say about you.
(uh huh.. it's better to ask in the right timing..)

2. SPEAK NOW, OR FOREVER HOLD YOUR PEACE. If he has done something to hurt your feelings, speak up. He might make the mistake of treating you as he would his guy friends, and may not realize he has hurt your feelings. For example, if he called his friend a WEAK, that wouldn't bug a guy.
(men are weird.. so do the women)

3. SAY IT FAST AND KEEP IT SIMPLE. For example, instead of telling him about how you were chubby as a child and it's affected your self image, just say, "I don't like being called "baboy". Case closed. He will appreciate your directness and will assure you that he would never call you "baboy" if he thought you'd take it personally..
('pag inasar ka pa, asarin mo na rin.. mag-asaran kayo.. that way, baka pagkatapos matawa na lang kayo sa sarili nyo kasi despite of that you still love each other, wow!)

4. DON'T INVITE HIM TO ANALYZE YOUR LIFE. If he doesn't enjoy analyzing how he feels, analyzing how you feel is probably not his idea of a good time either. Leave this to those who thrive on it - your girlfriends.
(men are selfish.. they are just not aware of it..)

5. ACCEPT HIM AS HE IS. It is insulting to him if you try to change the basic qualities that make him the fabulous guy he is.
(you'll be loving him as a whole person..)

6. RESIST THE URGE TO SOLVE HIS PROBLEMS FOR HIM. We know you mean and he does, too, but if something is bothering him, he may not want your help. If you don't push, he may open up on his own time. Then just stuff a cork in your mouth and listen. If he wants your advice, he'll ask for it.
(difficult part of a girl... Waiting for his guy to tell her about serious stuffs and what he really feels. Which actually.. the reason why girls suffer from worrying to death and being stressed thinking how she could help him)


7. GIVE HIM SPACE. Your guy's friends will put pressure on him if he starts spending too much time with you. He needs time to hang out with his pals. And that doesn't mean you can tag along. Don't be a cling-on.
(just like the thought, "HIS WORLD DOESN'T JUST REVOLVE AROUND YOU..")

8. LEAVE THE PAST BEHIND. Don't start yapping about your last boyfriend. Do you want to hear about his ex? And don't try to boost your profile in his eyes by telling him about other boys who like you. That's kid stuff.
(oh.. and you might ended up being jealous in the past and whatsoever, and thoughts would kill you that you'll bother yourself to ask if you really deserve each other.)